{"id":1334,"date":"2011-08-04T12:52:50","date_gmt":"2011-08-04T11:52:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.aguidetolovelossanddesperation.com\/?p=1334"},"modified":"2011-08-04T14:10:36","modified_gmt":"2011-08-04T13:10:36","slug":"o-strachu-fobiich-a-o-vsem-ceho-se-lide-boji-nebo-to-nemaji-radi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.aguidetolovelossanddesperation.com\/?p=1334","title":{"rendered":"O strachu, fobi\u00edch a o v\u0161em, \u010deho se lid\u00e9 boj\u00ed nebo to nemaj\u00ed r\u00e1di"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sed\u011bla jsem na gau\u010di v ob\u00fdv\u00e1ku a jedla jsem bramborovou ka\u0161i ud\u011blanou s ope\u010denou cibulkou, m\u011bla pln\u011bnou sekanou a F zrovna jel do nemocnice na op\u00edchnut\u00ed loktu a v tom okam\u017eiku m\u011b napadlo tohle v\u0161echno. Str\u00fdc<\/em> by tu ka\u0161i s ope\u010denou cibulkou nejedl, Pr\u010fka <\/em>by nejedla tu pln\u011bnou sekanou kv\u016fli vejci, Pe\u0165ulka<\/em> kv\u016fli tepl\u00e9 okurce a F hrozn\u011b nen\u00e1vid\u00ed injekce, p\u0159itom to je takovej drs\u0148\u00e1k norm\u00e1ln\u011b…<\/p>\n

… a tak jsem nad t\u00edm za\u010dala p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161let, co vlastn\u011b nem\u00e1m r\u00e1da j\u00e1? \u010ceho se boj\u00edm a z \u010deho m\u00e1m \u00faplnou fobii? Hned na za\u010d\u00e1tek v\u00e1m \u0159eknu, \u017ee nen\u00e1vid\u00edm lidi, kte\u0159\u00ed nic ne\u017eerou. Prost\u011b je nen\u00e1vid\u00edm \u017e\u00e1rem tis\u00edce slunc\u00ed. „J\u00e9, ale j\u00e1 nej\u00edm \u0161pen\u00e1t a vejce a maso nej\u00edm, nej\u00edm cibuli, \u010desnek, m\u00e1slo, koprovou nej\u00edm, rajskou nej\u00edm, seged\u00edn nej\u00edm, hr\u00e1\u0161ek a kuku\u0159ici nej\u00edm…<\/em>“ prost\u011b NE<\/strong>. Ka\u017ed\u00fd m\u00e1 N\u011aCO<\/strong>, co opravdu nej\u00ed, nem\u016f\u017ee, zvracel by, ale tohle… rad\u0161i nic.<\/p>\n

Vezmeme si tedy m\u011b. J\u00e1 \u00fapln\u011b opravdu nikdy a nikdy j\u00edst nebudu – S\u00ddR<\/span><\/strong>. V\u0161echny s\u00fdry. \u00dapln\u011b m\u011b dok\u00e1\u017ee nasrat, kdy\u017e to n\u011bkomu \u0159eknu a on na m\u011b, jestli nej\u00edm ani eidam. A kdy\u017e \u0159eknu, \u017ee ne, tak on vyd\u011b\u0161en\u011b, ani mozzarellu??? Ne! J\u00e1 nej\u00edm \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fd s\u00fdr prost\u011b, nej\u00edm eidam, ement\u00e1l, mozzarellu, chedar, olomouck\u00fd tvar\u016f\u017eky, taven\u00fd s\u00fdry, parmez\u00e1n, hermel\u00edn, nivu, bryndzu, balk\u00e1nsk\u00fd s\u00fdr, koz\u00ed s\u00fdr, jadel, goudu, takov\u00fd ty prov\u00e1zky<\/em>, ani nev\u00edm, jak co vypad\u00e1. V\u0161echno jsem j\u00edst zkou\u0161ela. Nem\u016f\u017eu o n\u011b\u010dem \u0159\u00edct, \u017ee to nens\u00e1\u0161\u00edm, kdy\u017e nev\u00edm, jak to chutn\u00e1 a tak jsem hodn\u011b s\u00fdr\u016f ochutnala, ale dopadlo to v\u017edy stejn\u011b, d\u011bl\u00e1 se mi z toho blb\u011b.<\/p>\n

Za posledn\u00ed 2 roky jsem dosp\u011bla \u00fapln\u011b k tomu, \u017ee J\u00cdM<\/strong> Lu\u010dinu, cottage sn\u00edm, ale nechutn\u00e1 mi a ta nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed pecka – sn\u00edm kousek uzen\u00e9 cihly na chleb\u00ed\u010dku a na pizze z PIZZA EXPRES. Nejv\u00edc nejhor\u0161\u00ed by pro m\u011b byl parmez\u00e1n. Ten by byl hor\u0161\u00ed, ne\u017e ty olomouck\u00fd nebo niva. N\u011bkdo na m\u011b jako – ty ani nem\u016f\u017ee\u0161 v\u011bd\u011bt, jak ta pizza dobr\u00e1 je, kdy\u017e na n\u00ed nem\u00e1\u0161 s\u00fdr. J\u00e1 v\u00edm, jak je dobr\u00e1 i bez s\u00fdra, kdy\u017e ho cel\u00fd \u017eivot nej\u00edm.<\/p>\n

A pak jsou v\u011bci, kter\u00e9 sn\u00edm, ale t\u0159eba je jen nem\u00e1m moc r\u00e1da, ale kdy\u017e to n\u011bkdo donese, tak co vi\u010f. Te\u010f nev\u00edm, co p\u0159esn\u011b to je. M\u00e1m r\u00e1da j\u00e1trov\u00e9 v\u011bci, ale hol\u00e1 j\u00e1tra nej\u00edm, proto\u017ee mi nep\u0159ijde norm\u00e1ln\u00ed j\u00edst vnit\u0159nosti. Tak\u017ee dr\u0161\u0165kovou j\u00edm – ale jen tu vodu bez kousk\u016f \u017ealudku a j\u00e1trovou om\u00e1\u010dku bez kus\u016f jater. Je to dobr\u00fd, fakt moc, ale j\u00e1 n\u011bjak nem\u016f\u017eu sn\u00edst vnit\u0159nost a nev\u00edm pro\u010d, ale v\u011b\u0159\u00edm, \u017ee do t\u0159\u00ed let u\u017e mi to p\u016fjde, jde to n\u011bjak l\u00edp a l\u00edp k tomu p\u0159istupovat.<\/p>\n

D\u0159\u00edv jsem nejedla houby, ale za\u010dala jsem pomalu s \u017eampionama a te\u010fka je m\u00e1m r\u00e1da, i kdy\u017e mi tro\u0161ku vad\u00ed, jak klou\u017eou (to je jak \u0161\u00edlen\u011b tlust\u00fd maso). Kdy\u017e jsme u toho – d\u0159\u00edv jsem to flusala, okrajovala i ku\u0159ec\u00ed maso, \u017ee z toho skoro nic nezbylo. Te\u010fka u\u017e to tak d\u016fkladn\u011b ned\u011bl\u00e1m a kdy\u017e m\u00e1m n\u011bkde men\u0161\u00ed kus tlust\u00fdho u\u017e v puse, tak to neflu\u0161u, ale rychle polknu.<\/p>\n

Jinak j\u00edm fakt v\u0161echno asi u\u017e. Je\u0161t\u011b m\u00e1m teda tro\u0161ku trauma ze zab\u00edja\u010dky, ale kdyby mi to n\u011bkdo podstr\u010dil a byl hlad… :) Ale Andrej\u00edna<\/em> t\u0159eba nej\u00ed tepeln\u011b upravenou zeleninu – \u017e\u00e1dnou a j\u00e1 to moc nech\u00e1pu, co vlastn\u011b jako teda j\u00ed XDDDDDDDDD Proto\u017ee moje j\u00eddla tvo\u0159ej p\u0159ev\u00e1\u017en\u011b n\u011bjak du\u0161enou zeleninu, d\u00e1v\u00e1m si ji op\u00e9ct k masu, no prost\u011b v\u0161ude m\u00e1m teplou zeleninu. Samotn\u00fd hol\u00fd r\u016f\u017ei\u010dkov\u00fd kapusty si uva\u0159\u00edm a osma\u017e\u00edm a tak.<\/p>\n

Nev\u011b\u0159ili byste, ale moji dva kamar\u00e1di, MU\u017dI nej\u00ed tlust\u00e9 maso v\u016fbec. Ani ku\u0159ec\u00ed tla\u010denku, sekanou, krkovici… jed\u00ed jenom okr\u00e1jen\u00e1 ku\u0159ec\u00ed prs\u00ed\u010dka. V\u0161echno to b\u00edl\u00e9 i v bu\u0159tech nebo klob\u00e1s\u00e1ch flu\u0161ou n\u011bkde pry\u010d…<\/p>\n

A m\u016fj nejlep\u0161\u00ed kamar\u00e1d George<\/em>, kter\u00fd m\u011b\u0159\u00ed 2 metry a je to prost\u011b chlap – ten nem\u016f\u017ee ani vid\u011bt mal\u00fdho pavou\u010dka. Zab\u00edj\u00ed, ut\u00edk\u00e1, fobie jako prase prost\u011b. Mn\u011b ty men\u0161\u00ed nevad\u011bj, jedinej pavouk, kterej mi fakt vad\u00ed a boj\u00edm se pak, je POKOUTN\u00cdK DOM\u00c1C\u00cd nebo HN\u011aD\u00dd.<\/p>\n

\"\"Ano, to jsou ti nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed kter\u00e9 m\u00e1me v\u017edycky doma ve van\u011b nebo co h\u016f\u0159, n\u011bkde na st\u011bn\u011b. U rodi\u010d\u016f jich v\u017edycky b\u011bhalo hafo. Nev\u00edm pro\u010d prost\u011b, ale tady jsem se za 3\/4 roku nesetkala ani s jedn\u00edm (\u0165uk \u0165uk) a douf\u00e1m, \u017ee ani nesetk\u00e1m. U rodi\u010d\u016f mi t\u00e1ta d\u00e1val z pokoje tak t\u0159i t\u00fddn\u011b.<\/p>\n

Naopak mi absolutn\u011b nevad\u00ed my\u0161i, krysy, potkani – to vid\u00edm a m\u016f\u017eu za t\u00edm b\u011b\u017eet a honit to a\u017e dokud to nezab\u011bhne n\u011bkam do d\u00edry. Taky mi nevad\u011bj hadi, v\u017edycky lov\u00edm slep\u00fd\u0161e a mal\u00e9 u\u017eovky, co na m\u011b \u00fato\u010d\u00ed <333<\/p>\n

Ale beru\u0161ky nem\u00e1m r\u00e1da, jsou to d\u011bvky, v\u017edycky p\u0159ilet\u011bj, maj o\u0161kliv\u00fd no\u017ei\u010dky, poch\u010dijou v\u00e1m ruku a zase odlet\u011bj…<\/p>\n

A pak n\u011bjak\u00e9 ty standardn\u00ed strachy jako v\u00fd\u0161ka t\u0159eba. J\u00e1 a v\u00fd\u0161ky. To dodnes nev\u00edm, jestli se boj\u00edm nebo ne. Jak kdy, jak a co je zabezpe\u010den\u00e9. P\u0159ipad\u00e1 mi, \u017ee p\u0159epad\u00e1v\u00e1m n\u011bkam dop\u0159edu a tak, ale to m\u00e1 asi ka\u017ed\u00fd, ne?<\/p>\n

Boj\u00edm se, \u017ee se stane n\u011bco n\u011bkomu z m\u00e9 rodiny.<\/p>\n

A ka\u017ed\u00e9 l\u00e9to se boj\u00edm, \u017ee m\u011b p\u00edchne vosa, v\u010dela nebo sr\u0161e\u0148. Ale sp\u00ed\u0161 se boj\u00edm, \u017ee mi zalet\u00ed n\u011bkam za krk nebo pod kra\u0165asy nebo tak a \u017ee m\u011b n\u011bjak\u00e1 velk\u00e1 sr\u0161n\u00ed \u010dubka bodne t\u0159eba 3x n\u011bkam, ne\u017e ji vylov\u00edm…<\/p>\n

A ne, \u017ee bych v\u00e1s jako cht\u011bla n\u00e1siln\u011b nutit, ale hrozn\u011b by m\u011b zaj\u00edmalo, \u017ee ho se boj\u00edte vy. Nebo \u010deho se v\u0161ichni boj\u00ed a vy ne. A taky, co nej\u00edte, co byste NIKDY nesn\u011bdli. Fakt up\u0159\u00edmn\u011b \u00fapln\u011b m\u011b to zaj\u00edm\u00e1, kolikr\u00e1t se n\u00e1m tady n\u011bco sejde a co je pro v\u0161echny m\u00e9 \u010dten\u00e1\u0159e to NEJHOR\u0160\u00cd! :))) Pot\u011b\u0161\u00edte m\u011b t\u00edm a m\u016f\u017eeme to rozvinou v diskuzi! :)))<\/strong><\/p>\n

UPDATE!<\/span><\/strong>
\nJsem v\u00e1m ale nenapsala tu moji nejhor\u0161\u00ed fobii, kterou jsem si nech\u00e1vala na konec XDDDDDDD A to bych m\u00edsto toho mo\u017en\u00e1 jedla v\u0161echny j\u00e1tra sv\u011bta v s\u00fdrov\u00fd om\u00e1\u010dce. Prost\u011b j\u00e1 v\u00e1\u017en\u011b nem\u016f\u017eu j\u00edt na V\u00ddT\u011aR Z KRKU<\/span><\/strong>! V \u0161estn\u00e1cti jsem pokopala doktorku a dv\u011b sest\u0159i\u010dky a nedostaly m\u011b, hahaha! XDDDDDDDDDDDD<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Sed\u011bla jsem na gau\u010di v ob\u00fdv\u00e1ku a jedla jsem bramborovou ka\u0161i ud\u011blanou s ope\u010denou cibulkou, m\u011bla pln\u011bnou sekanou a…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[12],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.aguidetolovelossanddesperation.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1334"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.aguidetolovelossanddesperation.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.aguidetolovelossanddesperation.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.aguidetolovelossanddesperation.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.aguidetolovelossanddesperation.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1334"}],"version-history":[{"count":8,"href":"https:\/\/www.aguidetolovelossanddesperation.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1334\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1342,"href":"https:\/\/www.aguidetolovelossanddesperation.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1334\/revisions\/1342"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.aguidetolovelossanddesperation.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1334"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.aguidetolovelossanddesperation.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1334"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.aguidetolovelossanddesperation.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1334"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}