{"id":4988,"date":"2013-11-08T00:52:50","date_gmt":"2013-11-07T23:52:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.aguidetolovelossanddesperation.com\/?p=4988"},"modified":"2013-11-08T00:52:50","modified_gmt":"2013-11-07T23:52:50","slug":"o-nejlepsich-pratelich","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.aguidetolovelossanddesperation.com\/?p=4988","title":{"rendered":"O nejlep\u0161\u00edch p\u0159\u00e1tel\u00edch"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Jak postupn\u011b poztr\u00e1cet v\u0161echny nejlep\u0161\u00ed kamar\u00e1dy? \u00dapln\u011b norm\u00e1ln\u011b, \u017eivotem. J\u00e1 jsem za \u017eivot m\u011bla <strong>dev\u011bt<\/strong> fakt nejlep\u0161\u00edch kamar\u00e1d\u016f, pro kter\u00fd bych v to dan\u00fd obdob\u00ed prost\u011b um\u0159ela klidn\u011b.<\/p>\n<p>Jako \u00fapln\u011b prvn\u00ed takov\u00fd v\u00e1\u017en\u00fd p\u0159\u00e1telstv\u00ed, kter\u00fd n\u011bco znamenalo jsem m\u011bla s <strong>Ester<\/strong>. Jestli n\u011bkdo \u010dte m\u016fj blog tak dlouho, \u017ee si pamatuje Ester, tak j\u00e1 v\u00e1m \u0159\u00edk\u00e1m, \u017ee to je nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed masakr ever. S n\u00ed jsme se poprv\u00fd v \u017eivot\u011b fakt opily a od t\u00fd doby nem\u016f\u017eu ani trochu cejtit jabkovej <em>berentzen<\/em>. \u00a0Potom sou\u010dasn\u011b s Ester byla moje nejlep\u0161\u00ed kamar\u00e1dka i <strong>Linda<\/strong>. V osm\u00fd t\u0159\u00edd\u011b potom byla z\u00e1rove\u0148 na 2 roky s Ester moje nejlep\u0161\u00ed kamar\u00e1dka <strong>Alina<\/strong> z Ukrajiny, kter\u00e1 na\u0161i t\u0159\u00eddu tot\u00e1ln\u011b v\u00e1lcovala svoji \u010de\u0161tinou a Lindu jsem tak n\u011bjak ztratila, ani nev\u00edm kde. Rozd\u011blila n\u00e1s v\u0161echny st\u0159edn\u00ed \u0161kola, politick\u00fd nejasnosti (od t\u00fd doby se nikdy, nikde a s nik\u00fdm nebav\u00edm o politice, \u00fapln\u011b z\u00e1sadn\u011b nejv\u00edc na sv\u011bt\u011b) a prost\u011b tak r\u016fzn\u011b. Tady n\u011bkde za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 i moje kamar\u00e1dstv\u00ed s <strong>Georgem<\/strong>, co\u017e je jedinej mu\u017e mezi holkama. Na st\u0159edn\u00ed \u0161kole jsem potkala dv\u011b nejlep\u0161\u00ed trubky na sv\u011bt\u011b, se kter\u00fdma jsem str\u00e1vila 4 nejlep\u0161\u00ed roky m\u00fdho \u017eivota snad, co se takhle kamar\u00e1dstv\u00ed a akc\u00ed a z\u00e1\u017eitk\u016f t\u00fd\u010de. <strong>Vendy<\/strong> a <strong>Pr\u010fku<\/strong>! Sou\u010dasn\u011b n\u011bkdy v polovin\u011b st\u0159edn\u00ed \u0161koly se seznamuju s <strong>Andrej\u00ednou<\/strong> a potom s <strong>Luci\u00ed<\/strong>. Vendy a Pr\u010fku ztr\u00e1c\u00edm hodn\u011b brzo po st\u0159edn\u00ed \u0161kole, Andrej\u00ednu ztr\u00e1c\u00edm u\u017e p\u0159ed odjezdem do UK, Georgeho taky a Lucii jsem ztratila asi p\u0159ed m\u011bs\u00edcem, kdy\u017e jsme si p\u0159estaly ps\u00e1t a nadobro j\u00ed ztrat\u00edm ani na za m\u011bs\u00edc, proto\u017ee ji dva roky neuvid\u00edm v\u016fbec a budeme se \u010dasov\u011b m\u00edjet \u00fapln\u011b online. Nakonec p\u0159ed rokem a p\u016fl dostala <strong>Kesida<\/strong> po\u017eehn\u00e1n\u00ed a potvrzen\u00ed, \u017ee si na\u0161la novou kamar\u00e1dku. Tady jsme si ale zase asi nakonec nedok\u00e1zaly \u0159\u00edct \u00fapln\u011b v\u0161echno, co bysme m\u011bly a cht\u011bly i kdy\u017e jsme se sna\u017eily. A jsme daleko. A tak.<\/p>\n<p>V\u0161ichni tihle lid\u00e9 o mn\u011b v\u011bd\u011bli snad fakt v\u0161echno v tom obdob\u00ed, proto si mysl\u00edm, \u017ee byli moji nejlep\u0161\u00ed p\u0159\u00e1tel\u00e9. Teoreticky to znamen\u00e1, \u017ee moment\u00e1ln\u011b nem\u00e1m \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fdho <em><strong>\u00fapln\u011b \u00fapln\u011b<\/strong><\/em> nejlep\u0161\u00edho p\u0159\u00edtele a jsem sama, ale na druhou stranu beru asi n\u011bjak podv\u011bdom\u011b po\u0159\u00e1d p\u00e1r posledn\u00edch zm\u00edn\u011bn\u00fdch jako nejlep\u0161\u00ed nebo dobr\u00fd nebo prost\u011b kamar\u00e1dy. Ale nem\u00e1m nikoho, komu bych moment\u00e1ln\u011b \u0159ekla \u00fapln\u011b v\u0161echno. Jako \u00fapln\u011b t\u00edm mysl\u00edm. \u017de bych se nestyd\u011bla to \u0159\u00edct. J\u00e1 v\u011b\u0159\u00edm, \u017ee by to nikdo nikomu ne\u0159ekl, ale tady jde o ten pocit, nestyd\u011bt a neb\u00e1t se to \u0159\u00edct. I kdy\u017e se pro sebe asi sna\u017e\u00edme ud\u011blat maximum. N\u011bkdo pot\u0159ebuje tohle, tak ten druhej kv\u016fli tomu l\u00edt\u00e1 kdov\u00edkde a pak zas pot\u0159ebuje n\u011bco ten druhej a l\u00edt\u00e1 prvn\u00ed. V\u017edycky jsem cht\u011bla m\u00edt n\u011bkoho na celej \u017eivot nebo tak, ale prost\u011b v\u017edycky v\u00e1s n\u011bjak\u00e1 situace rozd\u011bl\u00ed. Nebo lidi v\u00e1s rozd\u011bl\u00ed, pr\u00e1ce a \u017eivot. Poka\u017ed\u00fd v\u00e1s n\u011bco rozd\u011bl\u00ed. I blb\u00e1 situace, kter\u00e1 se prost\u011b nem\u00e1 st\u00e1t. Najednou na toho \u010dlov\u011bka kouk\u00e1te jinak.<\/p>\n<p>Se mnou je taky hodn\u011b t\u011b\u017ek\u00fd se kamar\u00e1dit asi a v\u016fbec vydr\u017eet. Div\u00edm se, \u017ee hodn\u011b lid\u00ed se semnou je\u0161t\u011b po\u0159\u00e1d bav\u00ed. Mysl\u00edm takov\u00fd ty dal\u0161\u00ed dobr\u00fd kamar\u00e1dy, co o mn\u011b v\u011bd\u011bj v\u00edc, ne\u017e n\u011bkdo jinej. To u\u017e jmenovat asi nebudu, proto\u017ee tady bych ur\u010dit\u011b n\u011bkoho zapomn\u011bla a dostala bych pak v Praze p\u0159es dr\u017eku.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00edm chci jenom \u0159\u00edct, \u017ee pokud m\u00e1te od mala nebo l\u00e9ta l\u00e9touc\u00ed nejlep\u0161\u00ed p\u0159\u00e1tele, dr\u017ete se jich jak kl\u00ed\u0161\u0165ata a milujte je cel\u00fdm srdcem a zkuste se nijak nenechat rozd\u011blit. Va\u017ete si jich a m\u011bjte se r\u00e1di.<\/p>\n<p>Ne, nem\u00e1m v\u016fbec depku nebo tak, m\u00e1m takovou neutr\u00e1ln\u00ed n\u00e1ladu, proto\u017ee p\u016fjdu sp\u00e1t ve dv\u011b a budu vst\u00e1vat v \u0161est, ale nev\u00edm pro\u010d, u\u017e asi t\u00fdden mi vis\u00ed v hlav\u011b v\u011bta, \u017ee <em>O nejlep\u0161\u00edch p\u0159\u00e1tel\u00edch<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>Kolik nejlep\u0161\u00edch p\u0159\u00e1tel je\u0161t\u011b za \u017eivot m\u016f\u017eu potkat?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Jak postupn\u011b poztr\u00e1cet v\u0161echny nejlep\u0161\u00ed kamar\u00e1dy? \u00dapln\u011b norm\u00e1ln\u011b, \u017eivotem. J\u00e1 jsem za \u017eivot m\u011bla dev\u011bt fakt nejlep\u0161\u00edch kamar\u00e1d\u016f, pro&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[13,23],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.aguidetolovelossanddesperation.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4988"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.aguidetolovelossanddesperation.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.aguidetolovelossanddesperation.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.aguidetolovelossanddesperation.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.aguidetolovelossanddesperation.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4988"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.aguidetolovelossanddesperation.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4988\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4992,"href":"https:\/\/www.aguidetolovelossanddesperation.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4988\/revisions\/4992"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.aguidetolovelossanddesperation.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4988"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.aguidetolovelossanddesperation.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4988"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.aguidetolovelossanddesperation.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4988"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}